Understanding?

Human beings as methodical creatures are ones of such nuances and trivialities that it can become deceptive to try and understand a true and full meaning of a person. This can lead to any experience or encounter with another being be it animal/ foreign or native person being completely immeasurable of the feeling or actions of the person. Situations can go into another light rather than the one you anticipated. People can be completly different than what you were led to believe by a single instance where their true character came into light accidentally or unnoticably by thier terms. It is with great fear and apprehensiveness that you take this information into light and recount your previous notions about the general feeling of said person. This is what "layers" of our upbringing have programmed into us, no one is exempt whether it be the simplicity of being shy or the complexities of a cocktail personality to aquire some middle ground as to not run into any problems with people that you have to deal with on a daily basis. Things would be easier if a character was only just that, that one character, this would make life seamless and fluidity would abound but in such dream filled thinking comes a harsh reality of a cold front and countless ruses of masks that have to be peeled away until you can truly know a person completely. Same goes for friends that you have known for consideration spans of time you will always learn new things because of thier inability to be comfortable. from birth poeple grow up with poeple that they cant be true with. i.e. parents, you've had to hide things and progressively you have shed your masks one by one to them in hopes that they would accept your decisions as a sentient being. with that in mind we have gone through our lives in just the same manner of fear of dissapproval and have covered ourselfs with general ideas of acceptable traits and over time shave down these traits to our very basic core and our original personalities. It is a strange type of ritual we have burdened ourselves with but for some reason poeple cling to this ritual for dear life